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Table of Contents
                            Introduction
Chapter1MenArefromMars,WomenArefromVenus
	REMEMBERINGOURDIFFERENCES
	ANOVERVIEWOFOURDIFFERENCES
	GOODINTENTIONSARENOTENOUGH
Chapter2Mr.Fix-ItandtheHome-ImprovementComm
	LIFEONMARS
	LIFEONVENUS
	GIVEUPGIVINGADVICE
	LEARNINGTOLISTEN
	INDEFENSEOFMR.FIX-ITANDTHEHOME-IMPROVEMENT
	WHENAWOMANRESISTSAMAN'SSOLUTIONS
	WHENAMANRESISTSTHEHOME-IMPROVEMENTCOMMITTEE
Chapter3MenGotoTheirCavesandWomenTalk
	COPINGWITHSTRESSONMARSANDVENUS
	FINDINGRELIEFINTHECAVE
		HowWomenReadTotheCove
	FINDINGRELIEFTHROUGHTALKING
		HowMenReactWhenWomenNeedtoTalk
	HOWTHEMARTIANSANDVENUSIANSFOUNDPEACE
Chapter4HowtoMotivatetheOppositeSex
	WHENAMANLOVESAWOMAN
		DifferencesAttract
		LoveMotivatesMartians
	WHENAWOMANLOVESAMAN
		TooMuchGivingIsTiring
		GivingUPBlame
	SETTINGANDRESPECTINGLIMITS
	LEARNINGTORECEIVE
		HowtheVenusiansLearntoFeelWorthy
		WhentheVenusianIsReadytheMartianWillAppear
	LEARNINGTOGIVE
		ItIsOKtoMakeMistakes
Chapter5SpeakingDifferentLanguages
	EXPRESSINGFEELINGSVERSUSEXPRESSINGINFORMATION
	WHENVENUSIANSTALK
		TheVenusian/MartinnPhraseDictionary
	WHENMARTIANSDON'TTALK
		HowSheReactstoHisSilence
		UnderstandingtheCove
		WhyMenneedTheirCave
		WhyWomenTalk
		GettingBurnedbytheDragon
	WHENMARTIANSDOTALK
	WHATTODOWHENHEGOESINTOHISCAVE
	HOWTOCOMMUNICATESUPPORTTOAMARTIAN
		HowtoApproachaManWithCriticismorAdvice
		WhenaManDoesn'tNeedHelp
		TooMuchCaringIsSmothering
		ASuccessStory
	MAKINGLITTLECHANGES
	HOWTOCOMMUNICATEWITHOUTBLAME
		SharingResponsibility
		FourMagicWordsofSupport
		WhattoDoWhenYouFeelLikeBlaming
		NowtoListenWithoutBlaming
		TheArtofListening
Chapter6MenAreLikeRubberBands
	WHATEVERYWOMANSHOULDKNOWABOUTMEN
		HowaManIsSuddenlyTransformed
		WhyMenPullAway
		WhyWomenPanic
		WhyMenandWomenDoubtTheirLove
	HOWWOMENMISINTERPRETMEN
		WhyMenPullAwayWhenWomenGetClose
	WHENTOTALKWITHAMAN
	NOWTOGETAMANTOTALK
		HowWomenPressureMentoTalk
		HowtoInitiateaConversationwithaMan
	WHENAMANWON'TTALK
		One-sidedConversations
		LearningtoSupportEachOtherWithoutHavingtoC
	WHENAMANDOESN'TPULLAWAY
		BecomingMoreIndependent
	OBSTRUCTINGTHEINTIMACYCYCLE
	HOWAMAN'SPASTMAYAFFECTHISINTIMACYCYCLE
	WISEMENANDWOMEN
Chapter7WomenAreLikeWaves
	HOWMENREACTTOTHEWAVE
		Don'tTrytoFixIt
		NowMenAreConfused
	RECURRINGCONVERSATIONSANDARGUMENTS
	UNDERSTANDINGNEEDINESS
	WHENAWOMANDOESN'TFEELSAFEINHERWELL
		EmotionalHousecleaning
		HowaManCanSupportaWomanintheWell
	WHENSHE'SINTHEWELLANDHE'SINTHECAVE
		MartianandVenusianLogic
		NowPostFeelingsComeUp.
		WhenFeelingsGetHurt
		WhyMenandWomenFight
	RESOLVINGCONFLICTSTHROUGHUNDERSTANDING
		WhataManCanDoWhenHeCan'tListen
		WhatHeCanSayInsteadofArguing
		WhatSheCanDoInsteadofArguing
	HOWMONEYCANCREATEPROBLEMS
		MoneyDoesn'tFulfillEmotionalNeeds
		AWealthyWomanNeedsMorePermissiontoBeUpset
	FEELINGSAREIMPORTANT
Chapter8DiscoveringOurDifferentEmotionalNeed
	THETWELVEKINDSOFLOVE
		ThePrimaryloveNeedsofWomenandMen
		UnderstandingYourPrimaryNeeds
			1.SheNeedsCaringandHeNeedsTrust
			2.SheNeedsUnderstandingandHeNeedsAcceptance
			3.SheNeedsRespectandHeNeedsAppreciation
			4.SheNeedsDevotionandHeNeedsAdmiration
			5.SheNeedsValidationandHeNeedsApproval
			6.SheNeedsReassuranceandHeNeedsEncouragemen
	THEKNIGHTINSHININGARMOR
	NOWYOUMAYBEUNKNOWINGLYTURNINGOFFYOURPARTNE
	WHENLOVEFAILS
	LEARNINGTOLISTENWITHOUTGETTINGANGRY
	THEARTOFEMPOWERINGAMAN
		GiveTrustandNotAdvice
		WhyMenResistChange
		TwoKindsofMen,OneKindofBehavior
		MenDon'tWanttoBeImproved
Chapter9HowtoAvoidArguments
	WHATHAPPENSWHENWEARGUE
	WHYARGUMENTSHURT
	THEFOURSTANCESFORAVOIDINGHURT
	WHYWEARGUE
	THEANATOMYOFANARGUMENT
		HowMenUnknowinglyStartArguments
		HowWomenUnknowinglyStartArguments
		WhenHeNeedsHerApprovalMost
	HOWTOEXPRESSYOURDIFFERENCESWITHOUTARGUING
	GIVINGSUPPORTATDIFFICULTTIMES
	AVOIDINGARGUMENTSTHROUGHLOVINGCOMMUNICATION
Chapter10ScoringPointswiththeOppositeSex
	LITTLETHINGSMAKEABIGDIFFERENCE
	THEMAGICOFDOINGLITTLETHINGS
		WhataManNeeds
		WhataManNeedsaWomantoAccept
	REDIRECTINGENERGYANDATTENTION
		WhenaManOverworks
		HowaWomenCanHelp
	WHENWOMENGIVEPOINTS
	HEALINGTHERESENTMENTFLU
		WhatSheCanDo
		WhatHeCanDo
	WHYMENGIVELESS
	HOWMENGIVEPOINTS
		WhenaWomanCanScoreMorePoints
	WHATMAKESMENDEFENSIVE
	WHENMENGIVEPENALTYPOINTS
	REMEMBERINGOURDIFFERENCES
Chapter11HowtoCommunicateDifficultFeelings
	THELOVELETTERTECHNIQUE
		HowWeCanLearnAboutOurpartnersNeeds
		WhattoDolfYourPartnerCan'tRespondLovingly
	MAKINGITSAFEFORLOVELETTERS
	MINILOVELETTERS
	WHENTOWRITELOVELETTERS
	WHYWENEEDTOWRITELOVELETTERS
		RealisticExpectations
		HowWeLearntoCommunicate
		lfOurPastWereDifferent
	TELLINGTHECOMPLETETRUTH
		WhyLoveLettersWork
		HowFeelingsCanHideOtherFeelings
	HEALINGNEGATIVEFEELINGS
		HowYourPastAffectsYouToday
		SilencingYourFeelingsThroughAddictions
	SECRETSOFSELF-HELP
		ThePowerofIntimacy
		ThePoweroftheGroup
		TakingTimetoListen
Chapter12HowtoAskforSupportandGetIt
	WHYWOMENDON'TASK
	STEPI:ASKINGCORRECTLYFORWHATYOUAREALREADY
		TipsforMotivatingaMen
		WhatMenWanttoBeAsked
		CommonMistakesinAsking
		CommonQuestionsAboutAskingforSupport
	STEP2:PRACTICEASKINGFORMORE(EVENWHENYOUKN
		HealthyRelationships
	STEP3:PRACTICEASSERTIVEASKING
		ProgrammingaMantoSayYes
		PregnantPause
	WHYMENARESOSENSITIVE
Chapter13KeepingtheMagicofLoveAlive
	HowRepressedFeelingsComeUp
	WhyCoupiesMayFightDuringGoodTimes
	THE90/10PRINCIPLE
		HowWeCanSupportEachOther
		AHealingLetter
	YOUARENEVERUPSETFORTHEREASONYOUTHINK
	THEDELAYEDREACTIONRESPONSE
		WhenCouplesSuddenlyFedTheirResentment
		TheCrisisofRisingExpectations
	WHYHEALTHYPEOPLEMAYNEEDCOUNSELING
	THESEASONSOFLOVE
		TheSpringtimeofLove
		TheSummerofLove
		TheAutumnofLove
		TheWinterofLove
	SUCCESSFULRELATIONSHIPS
Acknowledgement
                        

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